Odbmke, for what little it is worth: I'm very grateful for all you've brought to light here and I trust your honesty.
That said, I do wonder if you might give Morrissey the benefit of the doubt sometimes?
There are things here no-one can know about, including what Marr might have said to Moz in private for instance.
I also wonder if not enough attention has been given to how horrific it may have been for Morrissey if (?) Marr was indeed thinking of resurrecting the Smiths with Brandon Flowers or whoever?
Myself, I can't help really feeling for Morrissey in all this. He needs prayer, help and understanding.
But again, I am grateful to you.
Two questions. You say you are sure Morrissey will be reading this. How do you know? Genuinely curious . . .
Also do you think there could still be any hope at all that the tour might come off, even if it takes two or three years?
He posted inaccurate and goading statements three times, solely to stir up hatred and animosity towards Johnny, on the basis of what turned out to be bad-faith assumptions and
lies. Then, rather than apologise and say "I got this trademark stuff wrong", he made his management 'take the fall' and just carried on, adding personal insults in his next interview for good measure.
Is that a good man? Is that behaviour that deserves the benefit of the doubt? Not to me. I am sorry for his bitterness and obvious unhappiness, the way he can't seem to change his destructive behaviours, and the miserable mess that the past 10 years has been but he has caused so much of it himself. There is a point where you give up concocting excuses for his actions and you just have to face that he is an angry man who is terminally locked in some 'war' or other against the world, for reasons we will never fully understand.
I used to dream that Johnny would save this situation - that he'd see the depression behind M's words and 'letters' and somehow fly in on a winged horse and just 'clean it all up' and rescue Morrissey from his own mind. And then I realised that nobody can do that for another adult,
ever, and that JM isn't Morrissey's mother, wife, therapist
or his punching-bag when life gets a bit shit. Morrissey has crossed a line, and if Marr never speaks to him again - so be it. He is clearly sick to death of having to be 'the adult in the room', the one who deals with responsibilities whilst M fights, complains, has paranoid meltdowns and just can't seem to get his shit together in any way. It is sad, and from a distance I am sure JM feels for M and wonders what the hell is really going on in his head, but the best thing he can do is stay away.