I've never been brave enough to ask how Morrissey has saved lives for fear of upsetting people, but now the point has been raised I am doing so. I've heard of many people who say they wouldn't still be on the planet if not for Morrissey. Is it about helping people cope with their lives/feelings ? If so, can someone explain how. In my early years of widowhood I came across people who found it so helpful to see an image/picture/on-line post that resonated with how they felt. They would be so enthusiastic in their thanks for whoever had offered it. On a personal level I could not understand how finding out someone felt like I did was supposed to make me feel better. It didn't. A description by someone else of how awful I felt did not make me feel less awful. In many respects Morrissey is a good role model, but how does that save lives?
Appreciate why you might question this.
For me personally, I've had several quite dark episodes in my life and Morrissey has been there like an undimmable beacon during every single one.
The reason? I feel a large part of it is his honesty, and the humour he injects into dark subject matter. There is an overarching dogged determination in his writing, and actually I feel there is a very powerful thematic 'will to live' stitching much of his work together. The words and music really
speak and offer
solace. That's an incredibly rare thing.
I feel a deep connection to him, and I feel immense empathy for him. Mainly because I see myself and my struggles in him (and he is the only person I know of who can sing these particular things, in this particular style)
It wasn't just finding a depressed singer though (as some of my family, friends and colleagues would say)
It was more about finding someone who communicated sincerely about life's difficulties, and then inspite of those difficulties, demonstrated how you can defiantly carve out a triumphant
now.
Confront what you are afraid of
In the future when all's well
Would I credit him with saving my life?
I wouldn't necessarily say he was the
only reason - as there was always a combination of factors - but his contribution has been absolutely enormous at times.
Morrissey doesn't owe me anything...... but I certainly owe him an awful lot......
Sounds dramatic I know, but true nonetheless.